Simple Ways to Squirt During Sex

Simple Ways to Squirt During Sex

“Female ejaculation,” more commonly known as squirting, is the release of fluid mixture from the Skene’s glands during sexual arousal or orgasm. Despite its somewhat controversial nature and limited scientific research, squirting has become increasingly popular in recent years as more people explore and embrace their sexuality. Most people go to the extent of getting toys from a sex shop but still cannot manage to squirt. In this article, we’ll explore six simple ways for women to achieve squirting orgasms during sex.

Relaxation Techniques

Stress and tension can inhibit sexual arousal and prevent squirting from occurring. Therefore, it’s important to create a relaxed and comfortable environment in which both partners can feel at ease. Some effective relaxation techniques include deep breathing training, meditation or mindfulness practices, and taking a warm bath or shower together before sex.

G-spot Stimulation

The G-spot is an erogenous zone found on the vagina’s anterior wall (facing the belly button). It is a spongy tissue that, when stimulated, may provide great sexual pleasure and squirting orgasms. To stimulate the G-spot, use your fingers or a G-spot vibrator and apply firm pressure in a “come hither” motion. Experiment with different speeds, pressures, and angles to find what feels best for you.

Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is a sensitive part of the female body and is a key player in achieving squirting orgasms. To stimulate the clitoris during sex, try positions that allow for easy access to this area (e.g., woman on top, doggy style). Use your fingers or a clitoral vibrator to apply direct or indirect pressure to the clitoris. Experiment with different speeds, pressures, and patterns to find what feels best for you.

Deep Penetration

Deep penetration can help stimulate the G-spot and create intense sensations that may lead to squirting orgasms. Try positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g., missionary with legs raised, standing bent over). Experiment with various angles and depths of penetration to find what feels best for you.

Mind-body Connection

The mind-body connection plays a crucial role in sexual arousal and orgasm, including squirting orgasms. By focusing your attention on the pleasurable sensations in your body and letting go of any inhibitions or distractions, you can enhance your sexual experience and increase your chances of squirting. Some helpful techniques include mindful masturbation or self-pleasure practices and incorporating elements of fantasy or role-play into your sex life.


Remember that squirting is not the ultimate goal of sex—pleasure and connection should always be the focus. It’s also important to note that not all women can squirt, and that’s perfectly okay. Everyone’s body is different, and what works for one person may not work for another.

Terrell Xiong